Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Ball: Rolling

We made it through Day 1.  I was somewhere between wanting to just go to sleep or throw up for most  of the day.  Checking in solo had its challenges beginning with extracting her from the minivan. Of course she was crying and once she saw her bag land on the wheel chair, reality pelted her like a cold shower during a cozy nap.  She was glued to me like one of those clip on koala bears. Thankfully, the perceptive gentleman working at valet parking escorted us upstairs even with a detour due to a down elevator. Coworker Stefanie crossed our paths at just the right time to help carry my lunch and help us access the patient elevators, continuing our ascent to floor 11.

Overall, things went smoothly in clinic. We were able to sedate her enough to tolerate a bed ride back to the Cath Lab so I could hold her mask with the anesthetic until she went to sleep.

She now wears some "special jewelry" on her neck that keeps her from getting poked. It is not a PICC line, but a central line in her jugular, stitched right in there with special tape. We can administer the heparin and draw blood from it so there are no repeated pokes. This is a good thing as blood draws the typical way are torturous. This line is also in a place where she can't see it or be bothered by it when playing. We are so glad she is not the kind of patient to try ripping the wires from her body!! She is cautiously respecting her extra accessories.

We hit the play room a few times (they have lots of matchbox cars and a variety of garages and ramps on which to use them), ate a cheeseburger and broccoli, and are getting used to pulling our IV pole around. She was even being silly over dinner and making us laugh.  It has really helped to have little presents to give her to lure her back to the room since you have to work hard to get her back there for any procedure or check-up. She even asked for a present at 3AM when we had our first blood draw.

This is our first time in the new hospital staying overnight. Accommodations are much better! We have our own mini fridge in the room as well as a bathroom and shower  that I can use if need be. So far, Bernie is refusing to wear any form of hospital gown. I am picking my battles and that is one I don't really care about right now. Body by Bernie is in full effect.

Today we just hang out. The calm before the storm. Not sure yet where we are on the case schedule, but that can always change anyhow. Day 2 here we come.

6 comments:

  1. Sending lots of love, heart hugs and prayers, from the upper peninsula!
    Mike, Laurie and Aubree

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  2. You are two amazing ladies! Missy, you are amazing because I'm sure the check in was excruciatingly draining, physically and emotionally, but you made it through! Thank goodness for the guardian angels along the way, because so often they are what keeps us buoyed up. Bernie, you are amazing because what's happening is not fun, but you are still finding bright spots along your path. Keep it up, girlfriend!! We are so proud of you!! (It's okay to hold Mom's hand) P.S. I wouldn't wear a gown either, if I could get away with it!! ;D Much love and support from Sadie B and family

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  3. Sending hugs, prayers and awesome vibes your way! Hang in there Mama, she's a tough little one!! Xoxo Andrea

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  4. Tell Bernie, "Ms Melissa & her k-1 friends say HI!" We miss our little buddy already and will send cards soon!

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  5. Wonder woman and wonder girl! And Body by Bernie is brilliant. You should grab that phrase in all forms of social media. Thanks for keeping us informed when you must feel pretty spent. We are praying up here and sending love!

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  6. I'm coming to the blog from the CB page. Bernie is so precious. I want to say that I am praying for her and sending my love from Texas:D I hope that you both feel Gods peace in these several days. I'll be checking back for updates. I love the body by Bernie that is awesome:D hang in there girls..
    Bonny from Houston Texas

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